Have you ever seen a sibling pass up an opportunity to roast their brother or sister? Didn’t think so. Because if there’s one thing siblings do best, it’s turning even the most special moments into their personal comedy stage.
My son turned 16 this year, and his younger sister made sure it was a birthday to remember—or, more accurately, one he’ll never live down. The cake? It didn’t say Happy Birthday. Nope. It proudly declared, 16 years back, Mom found you from the bin. And the best part? She had been saving this line from Pinterest for over a month, just waiting for the perfect moment. Of course, she also made sure I was the one to write it on the cake—because that’s what parents are for, right? Getting dragged into sibling mischief.
Don’t you feel like siblings are like the WiFi connection in our lives: sometimes strong, sometimes weak, occasionally annoying, but impossible to live without each other. They’re the only people who can insult you in ways that leave you speechless yet secretly impressed. And today, as my son celebrates his big day, his sister reminds him (via cake, no less) that his very existence is questionable. Classic sibling energy.
Growing up with two sisters has given me a bond that’s unbreakable and full of unforgettable moments. We’ve had our fair share of fights over the silliest things, from TV remotes to stolen clothes, yet nothing could break the connection we share.
Siblings have a talent for fighting over nothing—whether it’s the last piece of pizza, a bathroom turn, or simply existing in the same room. But these wars are short-lived. One moment they’re at each other’s throats, the next, they’re teaming up against a common enemy—usually their parents when extra chores are assigned.
And the inside jokes? They last a lifetime. My sisters and I still crack up over things that happened years ago, leaving everyone around us completely lost. That’s the beauty of siblinghood—it’s a secret language of weird memories and endless teasing.
Three years ago, I wrote a letter to my son before he turned 13. Now that he’s 16, it feels even more special. Take a look at what I shared with him back then: Letter to my son before he turns 13
Today, it made me realize that sibling relationships are always messy, hilarious, and unpredictable, but at the end of the day, they’re irreplaceable. They are the people who know your most embarrassing moments, who will tease you endlessly, but who will also stand by you no matter what.
And then, as the years go by, the fights over toys and snacks turn into conversations about life, responsibilities, and dreams. The teasing never really stops, but somehow, it feels even more special. The younger one will always claim to be the “Favorite,” the older one will always insist they had it harder, and both will continue their lifelong mission of irritating and loving each other in equal measure.
So, to my son—Happy Birthday! You were not “found in a bin,” but in a family that loves you more than words (or cakes) can express—and to your sister—brilliant execution.
Do you have a sibling who loves to mess with you, or are you the one always pulling pranks? Share your funniest sibling moments—I’d love to hear them.
This blog post is part of ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla.
I was the pranking one always. When my brother would do the same, I would spank him. I regret all that but we have both calmed down now I guess.
This post made me smile because I could totally relate! I have a brother, and while we’ve had our fair share of teasing and playful fights, our bond is more like a deep friendship. I loved how you captured those little moments of love and laughter that make sibling relationships so special. It’s amazing how siblings can be our first best friends and lifelong partners-in-crime. Reading this brought back so many fond memories—such a heartwarming piece!
I am the youngest amongst five. My eldest brother is 19 years elder to me, so we never had that bond. The found in the garbage bin reminded of my second sister. She was dusky and would ask my mom if she had been picked up from “mandir ki seedhi”! My second brother who is 6 years elder was like a baby and I used to pull his leg. He would take girlfriend advice and also I used to sneak him into the house after a late night.
I want to tell my siblings daily that they have been picked from the pavement! Hilarious! I love what your daughter did. I guess it shows the comfort of being loved despite the pranks and mischief. Happy Birthday to your son.
That was both hilarious and heartwarming! I have an elder brother, and we fought like crazy when we were kids. But once we moved to different cities for education and work, he took over the role of a protective responsible elder brother. Occasionally we do enjoy light-hearted banter but he doesn’t mess with much nd stepped into a protective, responsible elder brother role. We do share light-hearted banter but mostly he just looks out for me. Ah! Your post brought back so many nostalgic memories!
My Sibling my elder sister is definately My WiFi connection. Agar woh nahi hoti to sayed mummy papa sa mujha kissa sadhi karna ha bol hi nahi pati. My didi connected the signal between me and parents and yes jo woh apna liya kabhi nahi kah payi , mere liye kahi di. She is my second MOM ….. she loves me a loooooooooooooooooooot. But both didi and me choose to go with 1 child as we found no more the sibling concept works after watching so many fights related to XYZ between many siblings.
Thank you fir going through this post dear.. Having a second child isn’t just about giving your firstborn a sibling—it’s about giving them a lifelong companion, someone to share childhood memories, secrets, and even the little fights that eventually turn into laughter. Yes, disagreements happen, but so do moments of support, love, and understanding that no other relationship can truly replace.
Every family is different, but giving your child a sibling can be one of the greatest gifts—a relationship that evolves, grows, and stands strong through life’s ups and downs.
Hahahaha….she wrote it on a cake. 😆 This is pure love and affection. I remembered we often tell our little brother that you have been picked up from the dustbin. And the maramari started 😄😄
You are right… siblings are like wi-fi
Ohh yes, such mischief ontinues even if we are well in to our 30s. This is not going to stop!
This is so heartwarming! I was a single child, and as a kid, I loved having all of my parents’ love and attention to myself. But as I grew up, I often wished I had a sibling to share life’s little moments. Thankfully, I found that special connection with my mom and now with my husband. Also, that birthday cake message cracked me up! Sibling humor at its finest!
This post brought back so many memories of growing up with my 3 siblings—endless teasing, laughter, and those candid moments that bonded us. It’s amazing how those little moments shape lifelong connections!
You had me in splits with that cake – first time I saw a younger sibling telling the older one that they are from the bin!! Usually it is the other way around :-D. I would tell my younger sister that we found her in a nallah (ROFL).
Yes, I also told her that you’re younger, how come you will say so, but she insisted. 😀
I keep teasing my first born that I found her in the drain 😂😂
I am a single child, so I never experienced this bond and hence wanted my kiddos to have each other. I hope my girls stay together bonded forever, especially after I am not there .
Hahaha! Your daughter seems to be the bigger prankster here. Am waiting to see what her brother will come up with for her birthday. Jokes apart, sibling love comes right on top for me. My brother and I were not great pranksters but we share a bond that will go beyond this birth, I believe! Thank you for talking about this beloved topic of mine.
I was the eldest of three so there was more protectiveness and a sense of duty and yet at times.with my younger sister there was this bantering and rivalry too. Your post rekindled the old times of joy and laughter for me.
This was so heartwarming. I do not have a sibling; however, I was very close to my cousins and my childhood memories are filled with the amazing time I had with them.
lol lol lol.. that cake was hilarious… and you reminded me not only of my siblings but also my cousins with whom I shared a similar love/hate relationship while growing up… mazaa aa gaya wo din yaad kar ke… our parents had a tough time reconciling us after we fought over the silliest things right from who won a game of cards, to who deserves the last laddoo
I’m missing my younger sister after reading this. 🙁
We were never close as kids but we are now and your post was bittersweet!
My son used to tease his sister , ” who let krit out?” Like who let the dogs out. Even today my neighbours remember the way he used to tease. It was his payback to his sister for telling him he was found in a basket . As he is only one in our family with O blood group , he believed it ! My sisters and I share a close bond ..( touch wood ) . Lovely post
This was such a relatable read. I have a younger brother and we fought like mad dogs with each other. Mom never got involved and said it wasn’t her mess to deal with! Over time he has matured a lot though and now acts like the elder one and cares for me no end.
This is so relatable Anjali. Brought back memories of my sister roasting me with the same line that I’m from the bin.
“This blog beautifully captures the essence of sibling relationships—the love, the laughter, and the little moments that make childhood special. The candid emotions and shared experiences truly resonate, reminding us of the unique bond siblings share. A heartwarming read!”